LEARNING THE BODY LANGUAGE OF ATTRACTION

Have you ever liked someone so much and wondered whether they liked you? Well, there is no foolproof way to know if someone likes us back; sometimes, we may get frustrated. Here’s the good news- the body never lies. Some specific physical signs can help us analyze whether there’s underlying interest when we suspect someone is attracted to us. Recognizing whether someone is attracted to us or we are attracted to a particular person is fundamental in knowing whether we should take a step ahead or a step back.

The Natural Body Language Of A Feminine Woman

Women are considered more adept at expressing and reading body language cues. When sending signals, they often have a particular set of indicators compared to men. Understanding how to spot the telltale signs of femineity will help you get ahead of your game. There are several signs that a woman is likely to express when she is interested in a man, but some of these are more natural than the rest. For instance, the posture of a feminine woman interested in a guy is that where she stands erect with her stomach tucked tightly and shoulders pulled back. This may be because she wants to appear her best and make a good impression. Women are likely to be more conscious of their appearance when around those they are attracted to. Consequently, a woman attracted to a man will keep fixing her make-up if she wears some, fix her clothes now and then or attempt to fix her hair so that none is out of place. And, of course, blushing is one of the most apparent signs that a woman likes you.

What Men Do Not Know They Are Attracted To When It Comes To Body Language

Men will engage in unconscious acts when first attracted to you, and their body movements signal interest and masculinity. Men are attracted to body signals from women like shrugging shoulders, flashing the inside of the wrists, and massaging their neck. They associate these subtle acts with an invitation for them to get close. They will consider these body signals as a green light, which often draws their attention.

A Feminine Woman’s Body Language Attracts A Man In The Classiest Way.

A woman making eye contact with someone she is attracted to communicates intentionality. In a way, she is purposefully inviting you to approach her and get to know her. When we make eye contact with someone we are attracted to, we are purposefully seeking to find whether the attraction is mutual. Maintaining eye contact is a way a woman expresses continued interest and makes their partner aware that they have chosen to focus entirely on them. Research shows that eye gazing causes the body to release a small dose of a hormone called oxytocin often referred to as the “love hormone.” Oxytocin is associated with social, emotional, and sexual bonding.

The 7 Types Of Body Language Signs And What Each Of These Signs Means

• Mirroring Behavior

When we are attracted to someone, we subconsciously adopt some of their behaviors to create a bond or feel more aligned with them. For instance, we use the exact phrases they do and mimic their verbal and non-verbal behavior, speech patterns, or attitude. Copying the things of our object of interest is a way of expressing that we are engaged in their interaction. Often the person mimicking the other person they are attracted to is unaware of this.

• Gestures

Being attracted to someone makes us want to always be at our best. Time and again, we find ourselves adjusting various facets of our appearance as a signal of attraction. These sneaky gestures make us appear more appealing and may be in many forms. They include attempting to fix out-of-place hairs or making sure our clothes are in check even though we have probably checked a thousand times before.

• Proxemics

One of the power signs of attraction is how we stand or sit in the presence of people we like. This move is often subtle but can be extremely obvious in some instances. For example, suppose a guy leans, tilts his body, or angles his chair toward a girl he likes. In that case, it is his way of letting her know that he’d like to get closer or that he is highly interested in her. Next time you are close to someone you like and want to find out whether it is mutual, pay attention to how close they stay.

• Facial Expressions

A person’s face is essential for gauging emotion, including attraction. The movement of the eyes and head is particularly insightful in determining whether there is a romantic interest. A man attracted to a particular woman is likelier to make eye contact with her, and sustaining this contact is another strong indicator that he is into you. On the other hand, women will likely blink more or flutter their eyelids as an expression of attraction to the person they are talking to. Generally, a woman is likelier to have an expressive smiling face when expressing interest.

• Body Orientation

Body language is an essential tool in determining attraction. Even in cases where we may be standing far away from someone we are attracted to, we are more likely to orient our bodies to face them. This is an expression of interest to engage with that person or thing. Suppose we are attracted to someone and are interested in approaching them. In that case, we find ourselves orienting our body towards them with our shoulders parallel to theirs regardless of the distance.

• Frequency Of Touching

When we like someone or are attracted to them, we find excuses to touch them more often. Most of the time, we try to establish physical contact once we have reduced personal space. It goes both ways. Suppose the person we like senses our interest and how comfortable we are with them. In that case, they too will try to touch you more as a sign of increasing intimacy. It is important to remember that this kind of touching will seem unnecessary or overdone unless we are interested or attracted to a person.

• Check The Feet

The feet often have a lot to tell when it comes to attraction. When we are attracted to someone, turning our body completely in an obvious way may seem too awkward and desperate. This is especially the case when we are sitting close to that person. Yet, there’s still something that will give us away even without turning our body completely- the feet. If you notice that their feet are pointing towards you despite the direction they are facing, it may be a good sign that they are interested in you.

What Every Woman Should Be Aware Of

The body movement of a man signals his interest and masculinity. Men, just like women, exhibit unconscious acts when first attracted to a woman. Paying attention to everything men do will often help us read men’s body language and establish whether there is mutual attraction. However, it is essential to remember that while body language may serve as a cue of attraction, it may also be a regular expression. For this reason, every woman should examine their body language closely to prove whether they are genuine signs of attraction before jumping to conclusions. It may even help to ask your partner whether the attraction is mutual simply.